Family Reactions
Mark's posted about a "Purple Plus" we went to while he was out with us.
A comment from one of his readers (who I assume is also one of my readers as I'm linked from her blog) reminded me of a job I went to when I was a mere trainee.
EmmaC said she felt like she "wanted to shake them and hit them , make them save him" with regards to the tragic death of her son.
It reminded me of a job a did a few years ago.
I was on a long term secondment covering the line of a technician who had gone on the car.
The job was given as an elderly female in cardiac arrest.
We'd just come "green" after a job into the hospital that was literally just around the corner from the call. We made our way there, and were second on scene behind the FRU.
As I got out of the ambulance, a plate smashed against the side of the ambulance. I dived back in. A moment later, the paramedic on the FRU appeared, and informed us that the patient was "purple", i.e. dead, and there was nothing we could do to change it. The son, who was on scene, had been told this by the FRU, and had gone "mad". The FRU paramedic had left the flat in a hurry in fear of her safety, leaving her kit on scene.
The police arrived in double-quick time, but we made it clear to them that the reason for the male to be violent was probable because he found it hard to believe his mum had passed away.
They subdued him, without arresting him, which I was pleased about, and we were able to formally fullfil the necessary requirements for the recognition of adult death.
We don't like not being able to do anything for a patient, even if it's the right thing at the time, but we accept it as part of the job.
Even when the family think there is something we can still do. We do have every sympathy for the families this type of event affects, and we hope we don't get too many of them....but dealing with them is part of our job. And that sometimes means realising that families sometimes think that we should be able to do more than we can. All we can do is offer our sympathies and care for the families as much as we can at the time.
A comment from one of his readers (who I assume is also one of my readers as I'm linked from her blog) reminded me of a job I went to when I was a mere trainee.
EmmaC said she felt like she "wanted to shake them and hit them , make them save him" with regards to the tragic death of her son.
It reminded me of a job a did a few years ago.
I was on a long term secondment covering the line of a technician who had gone on the car.
The job was given as an elderly female in cardiac arrest.
We'd just come "green" after a job into the hospital that was literally just around the corner from the call. We made our way there, and were second on scene behind the FRU.
As I got out of the ambulance, a plate smashed against the side of the ambulance. I dived back in. A moment later, the paramedic on the FRU appeared, and informed us that the patient was "purple", i.e. dead, and there was nothing we could do to change it. The son, who was on scene, had been told this by the FRU, and had gone "mad". The FRU paramedic had left the flat in a hurry in fear of her safety, leaving her kit on scene.
The police arrived in double-quick time, but we made it clear to them that the reason for the male to be violent was probable because he found it hard to believe his mum had passed away.
They subdued him, without arresting him, which I was pleased about, and we were able to formally fullfil the necessary requirements for the recognition of adult death.
We don't like not being able to do anything for a patient, even if it's the right thing at the time, but we accept it as part of the job.
Even when the family think there is something we can still do. We do have every sympathy for the families this type of event affects, and we hope we don't get too many of them....but dealing with them is part of our job. And that sometimes means realising that families sometimes think that we should be able to do more than we can. All we can do is offer our sympathies and care for the families as much as we can at the time.
written on the PRF by Steve at 12:47 am
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